What is a true friend?
We talked earlier this week about the friends and companions that made the great things that happened in Acts possible. Paul needed Barnabas, Barnabas needed 12, etc. Sometimes the role of a friend is to be there, to support, to care, and to help give strength.
That’s also what Jesus does for us in our daily lives. He is the one friend that we can always count on, that is always there.
Sometimes, the role of a friend is very different.
Listen what happens today in the Gospel of Luke:
28 When they heard this, all in the synagogue were filled with rage. 29 They got up, drove him out of the town, and led him to the brow of the hill on which their town was built, so that they might hurl him off the cliff. 30 But he passed through the midst of them and went on his way.
Ok, go back and reread that. They wanted to throw Jesus off a cliff. By the way, the image to you left, that may be the actual cliff they tried to throw Him off.
He wasn’t universally beloved as He walked upon the earth. Some folks didn’t like what He said and did. Some folks, like we see in the text, even wanted to throw Him off a cliff.
He was nailed to a cross and died.
He said things that people didn’t want to hear. He challenged them to grow. To reexamine. To look at things differently.
That’s what a friend does, too.
So, today, what do you NEED to hear that you don’t WANT to hear? What is the truth that you need to hear from a friend that you might now want to hear?
A true friend will tell us the truth. Even if that truth is something we don’t want to hear.
We need that. As a pastor, I’m thankful for those friends that have been willing to tell me the truth, and that has helped me to grow as a pastor, husband, and father.
I’m thankful for a wife that is willing to tell me the truth. I’m thankful for those that love me enough to tell me what I need to hear.
Today, be listening for the truth. Be it from a friend. From the Lord. From wherever. Be listening for that Word we may need to hear.
Sometimes, it’s hard to be a friend. Today, may we be thankful for those that are.
