Today, we see Esther follow through with Mordecai’s request. She goes to the King to ask him to spare her people. But she does something unexpected. Instead of asking then, she throws a banquet. And then, at that banquet, she asks the King and Haman to come to another banquet. Why? There’s really no good answer in scripture, and I get a couple of the reasons I read in commentaries. But to me, ultimately, it is about her being willing to follow God’s nudge or plan, even when it may be different from what she thought. Sometimes, we get so focused on our plan that we can miss God’s plan.

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Good morning! I hope you’re staying warm today. It’s another cold one here in Mississippi, and I’m bundled up, huddled next to the heater in my office. Honestly, I’m like a little chihuahua stepping into the cold—just not built for this weather! Wherever you are, I hope you’re cozy and safe.

Today, we’re continuing with Esther and diving into chapter 5, which covers two connected moments in the story. These two parts really complement each other, as one sets up a question that the other seems to answer. Let’s read the full chapter—verses 1 through 14—and reflect on what’s happening here.

Esther begins by bravely stepping into the inner court of the palace, risking her life by approaching the king uninvited. Amazingly, Xerxes welcomes her, extending his gold scepter—a signal of approval and safety. When he asks what she desires, even offering up to half his kingdom, Esther invites him and Haman to a banquet she’s prepared.

At the banquet, the king again asks Esther what she wants. Instead of making her request right then, she invites them to another banquet the next day, promising to share her petition then.

Meanwhile, Haman is overjoyed, reveling in his privileged position. He boasts to his family and friends about his wealth, sons, and status. He’s especially thrilled to be the only person besides the king invited to Queen Esther’s banquet. Yet all his pride is overshadowed by one thing: Mordecai’s refusal to show him honor. His wife and friends suggest he set up a massive pole—50 cubits high—and ask the king to have Mordecai impaled on it. Haman, delighted by the idea, goes ahead with their suggestion.

As I was reading this chapter, one question kept coming to mind: Why did Esther invite them to two banquets? She had already demonstrated incredible courage by approaching the king, and he seemed willing to grant her request. Why not make her plea right then and there?

The text doesn’t give a definitive answer, and even scholars and commentators have different interpretations. One Jewish tradition suggests that perhaps Esther lost her nerve in the moment. After all, she’s human—who wouldn’t feel overwhelmed facing such a monumental task?

Another perspective is that Esther used the second banquet as a way to confirm the king’s favor. By seeing that he was still willing to grant her request the next day, she could approach her petition with greater confidence.

But the second banquet also gives us a glimpse into Haman’s character. His pride and arrogance are on full display, and his decision to set up the pole for Mordecai’s execution shows just how consumed he is by his hatred. Esther may have sensed that giving Haman more time would only solidify his downfall. In a way, she let Haman’s own pride and schemes prepare the stage for his undoing.

Whatever Esther’s reasons, her actions remind us of the importance of trusting God’s timing. Sometimes, we feel an urgent need to act immediately, but God may be calling us to wait, to be patient, and to let events unfold in His way.

This passage also highlights the danger of pride. Haman’s pride blinds him to reason, leading him down a path of destruction. How often do we let our own egos get in the way—whether it’s in relationships, work, or even our faith? Pride can cause us to focus on ourselves instead of trusting in God’s plan.

Esther’s willingness to adapt and follow God’s leading is a powerful example for us. We may not always understand why things unfold the way they do, but if we remain faithful and open to the Holy Spirit, God can use even the unexpected detours for His glory.

So today, as you go about your plans and tasks, remember to leave room for the Spirit to guide you. It’s good to work hard and have goals, but don’t hold onto your plans so tightly that you miss where God might be leading you.

Thanks for spending this time with me today. Tomorrow, we’ll pick up with chapter 6, and we’re getting closer to the dramatic climax of Esther’s story. Stay warm, stay safe, and I’ll see you then!