Not every story in the Bible is given so that we know what to do sometimes; they are given to us so that we know what not to do. We see King Xerxes today, and we see how powerful he is. He is throwing grand and great festivals. He is showing his power and wealth for all to see. The last thing that he wants to show off is his wife. And she refuses to be treated as such, so he banishes her. We are called, as people and as husbands and wives, to show respect to each other. Xerxes has much, yes. But he is not living in a way that we should see to imitate as Christians.

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Good morning! It’s great to start this Wednesday with you as we dive into the Book of Esther. After finishing Ruth and reflecting on the power of kindness, we now turn to Esther—a story of courage and faithfulness set against the backdrop of power and excess.

Esther Chapter 1 sets the stage. King Xerxes, ruling over 127 provinces, hosts a grand 180-day display of wealth, followed by a week-long banquet for all the people. During this feast, Xerxes commands Queen Vashti to appear before his guests to display her beauty. However, Vashti refuses, an act that enrages the king. In response, Xerxes exiles her, and his nobles, concerned that Vashti’s defiance might set a precedent, advise him to issue a decree reinforcing male authority in households across the kingdom.

This chapter paints a picture of Xerxes’ obsession with power and pride. His actions reveal a ruler who values displays of wealth and control over the humanity of those around him. Even Queen Vashti is treated as an object to flaunt rather than a person to honor. Her refusal is significant, as it challenges the rigid norms of her time, asserting her dignity in a culture that often devalued women.

The events in this chapter also foreshadow the challenges Esther will face. Xerxes’ impulsiveness and the irrevocability of his decrees create a high-stakes environment in which Esther’s courage and wisdom will shine. Her story will highlight the risks and rewards of standing up for what is right, even in the face of immense power.

As we reflect on this chapter, it serves as a reminder to treat others with respect and dignity. Xerxes’ behavior contrasts sharply with the mutual love and honor described in Ephesians 5, where husbands and wives are called to mirror Christ’s love for the church. By valuing each other and fostering relationships rooted in love, we live out God’s call to care for one another.

As we continue through Esther, we’ll witness her bravery and faith in action. For today, let’s take time to reflect on how we can honor and respect others in our own lives. Thank you for joining me. Have a wonderful day, and we’ll continue tomorrow with more from Esther!