Naomi tells the people, do not call her by her name but now call her “Mara.” This is the Hebrew word for bitter. In the Bible, your name isn’t just what they call you; it’s who you are. Naomi is telling the people she has changed. She is bitter. We will all suffer. We will all have bad times. But don’t let grief change your name. Don’t let it change who you are. Stay rooted in what is good, not in bitterness. Don’t let it change you.

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Happy Friday. Today, we’ll finish Ruth Chapter 1 (verses 6–22). This passage is one of my favorite readings, often shared at funerals, and it’s full of deep lessons about kindness, bitterness, and the power of staying rooted in God.

Naomi hears that the Lord has provided food for her people and decides to return to Judah with her daughters-in-law, Ruth and Orpah. Naomi urges them to stay behind, as she has nothing left to offer. Orpah returns home, but Ruth clings to Naomi, famously declaring:
“Where you go, I will go. Where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people, and your God my God.”

When Naomi arrives in Bethlehem, she’s overwhelmed by her grief and tells the townspeople, “Don’t call me Naomi (pleasant). Call me Mara (bitter), because the Lord has made my life very bitter.”

This passage reminds us how bitterness can consume us. Naomi’s pain led her to believe she was defined by her suffering. Bitterness is corrosive, robbing us of joy, hope, and love. It can overshadow the goodness of God and isolate us from his grace if we let it take root in our hearts.

At the same time, Ruth’s loyalty demonstrates the redemptive power of kindness. While Naomi begins the story deeply rooted in bitterness, Ruth’s steadfast love and faithfulness point toward restoration. Kindness has the power to heal and transform, even in the face of immense pain.

As we enter this new year, challenges and suffering are inevitable. But we must not let grief change our identity or dictate our future. Staying rooted in Jesus keeps us grounded, nourished by his love and grace rather than bitterness.

Whatever comes, choose to plant yourself in kindness, not anger or resentment. When we stay rooted in Christ, he provides the strength to weather life’s storms.

Thanks for joining me today. On Monday, we’ll start Ruth Chapter 2. Have a great weekend!