Don’t Say That!

I heard someone say once, “if you have to say – I really shouldn’t stay this. . . then, you really shouldn’t say it!”

Our mouths have a way of getting us in trouble, don’t they?  When I was a kid, most of the whoopings I got where for my smart mouth. I’d have something that I just had to say, that I knew I shouldn’t say, but I just couldn’t help myself.

So I’d say it. And I’d get in trouble.  Like I knew I was going to. But, I just couldn’t help myself!

We all find it hard to control our mouth. I’ve joked that as I’ve been in ministry longer, I’ve got callous in my tongue from learning to bite it when I wanted to say something I didn’t need to.

But, we can rejoice, that we aren’t the first folks to ever deal with this problem.  Listen to what James writes today in James 3:

People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!

James reminds us that many have tried to tame the tongue, but it is a restless evil.  It’s so hard to hold it. It’s so hard not to strike back out of anger. It’s so hard not to respond to a cruel word.  It’s so hard to not respond tit for tat.  We just don’t know if we can.

On our own, we can’t. Through our own strength, through our own might, through our own power, we won’t be able to.  We just can’t do it.

But, through the power of God, we can.  Through His strength we can.  All things are possible through Him.

So, today, when you want to say it, whatever it is, stop. Slow down. And pray.  Ask for strength.  Ask for control. Ask for guidance.

God has given us our tongue to praise Him.  Not to tear others down.

Today, how will you use it?  Will you use it for good?  Or for evil?  We have a great power and a great responsibility.  Through God’s grace, may we use it right.

 

Why Your Church Should Be on Facebook

This is the article I wrote for the Circuit Rider of the Mississippi Annual Conference about why your church should be using Facebook and other social media.  You can download this article in a PDF format by clicking here.

You can also connect to me on Facebook here, follow me on Twitter here, and connect to Asbury Church here and follow us on Twitter here.

Listen to This

There are some days when I am reading the scripture and working on this morning devotionat, that I have a passage that I feel the need to explain a little. I feel the next to expand it. Or explain it. Or work with it. There is something I need to “do” to help you better understand what God is saying it.

Or perhaps help you to see something about it in a new way. Maybe to think about it in a way that you’ve never thought about it before.

I’m a preacher. That’s what I do 🙂 It’s what I really love doing, and in doing it I hope I’m a help to your faith.

That can be the joy of scripture. We can read the same passage, over, and over, and over again, but each time get something different out of it; each time here the Lord say something that we didn’t expect to hear.

Today, though, today is a passage that I want you to just listen to do. Today, no matter where you are, and what you are doing (unless you are driving when reading this!) I want you to stop.

Stop what you are doing. Take a five-minute break from work.

Slow yourself. Breathe. And listen to what Paul writes in Romans 8:

Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean he no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Today, I don’t really have a lot to add to that. Just think about it.

Nothing will separate you from God’s love. Nothing. Nothing you have ever done. Nothing you could ever do. Nothing in creation. Nothing at all. Nothing.

God loves more today than He ever has. God loves you.

Through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God has given everything to know you, to love you, to save you.

You are loved. Block away everything that’s ever happened in your life. Block away every mistake. Every failing. Every fault. Everything.

And know that you are loved today. Nothing can separate you from that love.

Are you living out that love today? Outside of living through God’s love, we will always be restless. But, living in the power of God’s love, we’ll find life.

Today, nothing can separate you. Nothing. Live in that love.

Know Your Lane

One of the statements I once heard at a leadership event was the phrase “know your lane.”  I really like that phrase, and I use it a lot when talking about leadership and being who God wants us to be. We should know our lane. And we should “stay in our lane.”

Ok Andy, what does that mean.

Think about driving on the interstate.  There are two lanes.  And, let’s say, you are driving a 1990 Pontiac LeMans (my first car. We used to call it the turtle. Because, well, you know).  As I was driving to school on the interstate, I stayed in the right, i.e. slow lane.  Why? Because I was driving a 1990 Pontiac LeMans. Fast was not a speed that it had.  I knew what my car could do, and I knew what lane I needed to be in. And I stayed in it.

Know who you are.  Know what you can do.  And do it. Don’t try to be someone you aren’t. Know your strengths and weaknesses.  Know what you can and can’t do. And do it. Know your lane and stay in it.

Ok, what’s that got to with God?

Listen to parts of Psalm 78 this morning:

Their hearts were not loyal to him.
They did not keep his covenant.
Yet he was merciful and forgave their sins
and did not destroy them all.
Many times he held back his anger
and did not unleash his fury!
For he remembered that they were merely mortal,
gone like a breath of wind that never returns.

God knows who we are.  God knows our lane.  I love the end of this passage. There were many times God should have just destroyed the people.  He should have wiped them off the face of the map.  He should have ended them.

But He didn’t.  Why?  He knew their lane.  He knew that they (we) were merely mortal.  They (we) are like a breath of wind that will never return.

We are weak and we are frail. We are going to make mistakes. We are going to fall.  We are going to do it wrong.

That’s who we are.

But, here’s the thing. I’m not telling you to accept that. I’m not giving you permission to stay in your sin.  This is what it teach us.  We are weak.  And if we think that the can overcome our weakness and sin based off our own will power and strength, we don’t know our lane.

We can’t.  If you try today to be very good, you will fail.

But, through God, all things are possible.

You can’t do it. God, through you, can do all things. All things.

Today, know your lane. But, also know God’s lane.  You are weak.  He is strong.  Trust in Him. And through Him, all things are possible.

 

A 2×4

Sometimes when I’m reading scripture, I have to sit and think.  Slow down.  Listen. Stop. Wait.

Sometimes, in these moments, I think, come on, God!  What are you wanting to say to me?  I’m not hearing it!  I’m not hearing anything!

So, I wait.  I ponder.  I pray.  I listen.  I stop.  I breathe.  And sometimes, sometimes I see that word, or hear that thought, or feel that presence, and I know God is saying something to me.

Sometimes not.  Sometimes I just know that I am being faithful, and in the end, that’s all God wants.

And then there are sometimes the Lord picks up a 2×4 and proceeds to wail against my hard head, saying, come on, boy, are you listening?!?!

Today was a 2×4 day.

Listen to what the Word says in Proverbs 3:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil.

Lot’s of good stuff there, but the one word the Lord really spoke to me about was that word “impressed.” Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Don’t think you are so smart. Don’t think you’ve got it all figured out.

You don’t.

God does.

Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t trust in your might, in your power, in your wisdom. Trust in God, and in His wisdom. Trust in what He wants to do, and who He is. Trust in His might, in His power, in His way.  Trust not in your own wisdom.

Trust in God’s.

Don’t be impressed with yourself. But, be blown away by God.

Don’t be impressed with your wisdom and strength, but stand in awe of the Lord and who He is, and what He has done.

The Lord took a 2×4 to my head with this passage.  And I am thankful.  We need to trust in Him, His plan, His wisdom, His might.

He knows what He is doing.

We need to trust.

God is Not Out to Get You

As a pastor, one of the things that most breaks my heart, is when broken people, people who are truly hurting don’t want to turn to God for relief, support, love, and life.

I hate seeing people struggle and hurt over things in their lives, over pain they feel, and even over pain they may have caused.  And I have found, perhaps my just in my experience, the reason folks don’t want to turn to God in that moment is that they think God is mad at them.

God is out to get them.

Perhaps God is even the one causing their pain to get them back for whatever they may have done wrong in the past.

They feel like God wants to get them, punish them, destroy them.

Maybe this morning, that may even be you.  Maybe you feel that way right now. Maybe you think God is out to get you, destroy you, punish you.

If so, listen to what God says through Ezekiel this morning:

“Do you think that I like to see wicked people die? says the Sovereign Lord. Of course not! I want them to turn from their wicked ways and live.”

God is not out to get you. God loves you. God wants you to live. God wants you to know life. God wants you to know mercy and joy and peace and hope and life.  God wants you to know and experience the depth of His love and mercy.

He loves you.

He wants to know you.

And, He wants to forgive you and bring you home today.

He wants you to know the power of hope, life, and forgiveness.  God wants what’s best for you today. And, you can trust Him.

Let me say it again.  You can trust Him.  No matter what you’ve done, what you’re doing, what you’re going to do. He loves you.

God is not out to get you. He wants you to know life. Today, no matter where you are in your walk with God, and other people, know this.

God loves you.

 

What are you Looking at?

What are you looking at?

Well, you are probably thinking right now, my email.  Or my smart phone.  Or your blog.  That’s what I’m looking at right now.  Ok, what will you look at next next?  What you have you looked at already today?

And I’m not just talking about what you’ve “seen” with your eyes.  What have you dwelled on with your soul?  What have you allowed your mind and your spirit to rest upon today? What have you focused your thoughts and your presence upon today?

In the Bible, one of the things that we see Jesus do over and over again is heal the blind. Now, in scripture there is a physical miracle that happens here, but there is a deeper spiritual miracle. To heal the blind isn’t just to bring sight to the eyes, it’s to bring sight to the soul. Not just to let folks “see” physically, but to really let them see what’s going on in a deeper, spiritual way.

So, today, what are you looking at?  Where are you gazing?

Listen to the words of Psalm 101 today:

I will be careful to live a blameless life—
when will you come to help me?
I will lead a life of integrity
in my own home.
I will refuse to look at
anything vile and vulgar.

What are you looking at? Where are you dwelling? Where is your soul today?

Today, are you “looking” at the things of God? Are you “looking” at the things of the world? Are you “looking” at your own fleshly desires?  Are you looking at the things that dishonor God?  Or are you looking at the things that honor God and give life?

Are you “looking” at anger?

Are you “looking” at pride?

Are you “looking” at hatred?

Are you “looking” at unforgiveness?

Are you “looking” at you?  Or are you “looking” at God?

Our kids used to sing that song – Oh be careful little eyes what you see, Oh be careful little eyes what you see, for the Father up above is looking down with love, so be careful little eyes what you see.

Today, are you being careful what you see?  Are you placing your eyes, your mind, your soul on the things of God?  For only in doing that can we find life, love, peace, and joy.

Today, what are you looking at?

 

What Facebook Can Mean for the Church

Let’s say that you were called by God to be a missionary in a foreign country.  What would you do?  Well, if you were like me, the first thing you’d want to do is learn the language.

If you were a missionary in Mexico, you’d learn Spanish. If you were in Germany, German.  And even if you were going to the United Kingdom, you’d still need to learn the colloquialisms of our friends across the pond.

Maybe you aren’t called to in the foreign mission field.  Perhaps your church is in small American town, like mine, and not in Korea.  Does that mean that you are not called to be a missionary?  No.

All of us, whether we are foreign missionaries or lay people in a local church, are called to be missionaries, or ambassadors, for Jesus each day of our life.  And we need to learn the language. What language is that?  Well, in our current environment, I believe it is the universal language of social media.

In other words, you, and your church, need to be on Facebook!

But Andy, you say, that’s only for teens.  First, if that statement was true, then what we as Christians are saying, and the church is saying, is that teenagers and kids don’t matter to God.  And I don’t know about your Bible, but mine says for God so loved “the world.” Teenagers included.

Second, that statement is absolutely not true. Currently, 86% of all adults 19-30 are on Facebook.  And they are not alone.  According to recent studies, 61% of Facebook users are 35 or older.   In fact, the average age of a Facebook user is 38.  And 47% of all adults between the ages of 50 – 65 are on Facebook. This is a huge section of the population that uses Facebook as a means of connection.

But are they connecting to a local church?

Let’s go back to our missionary example. Some in the Body of Christ are called to the foreign mission field, some are not. However, as we all well know, we are all called to be in ministry. Through our baptism, we are each marked by God and called to represent Him in all that we do.   As United Methodists our mission statement is “Make Disciples for the Transformation of the World.” That’s you. That’s me. That’s each of us. That’s what we are about.

But perhaps that vision of mission isn’t enough for you. Perhaps you need a little more encouragement to understand your role in the world today and to represent Christ in all that you do. Listen to what the Apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 5:20:

“We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.”

As a missionary or ambassador, you are charged with reconciling others to God. And in order to spread that message, you must know the language, the culture and modes of communication of the people you are trying to reach. Simultaneously, we, as the Church, and as Christians, must be willing to reach and communicate with people however possible.

All of these people – young and old – matter. They matter to God, and they should matter to us to as the church.  And we as the church need to be invested in whatever ways we can to reach and connect with them, including Facebook and other social media and/or networking.

A missionary would never see it as a source of pride or badge of honor that they didn’t speak the language of the place they were called.

Do you, and does your church, see it as a badge of honor to not be connected?  If so, ask yourself, is that really what Jesus wants for His church? I believe, personally, that Jesus wants us to use every means at our disposal to further His kingdom.

The notion of reaching out to the world isn’t the only reason why we as the church and as Christians should be on Facebook.  Social media also can be used as a tool to reach into your church and touch the lives of your congregation.

As a pastor, I use Facebook to be in connection with the members of my church on a daily basis.  Sometimes the connection is just silly stuff, like making Ole Miss/MSU jokes (Go Rebels!), but other times it is quite serious. I’ve been able, as a pastor, to reach out to people in a way that fits into their schedule and helps me stay within mine.

Through Facebook, while I’m in my office and my congregation is at home or at work, I’m able to be a part of their day.  I’m able to share in their happy moments.  I’m able to be a part of their joys, their achievements and their victories.  Yet, at the same time, and through the same medium, I’m also able to reach out to people who are struggling, who are having a bad day, or who need encouragement and let them know that I love them and care for them.  And so does their church.

And as the pastor of a church that is experiencing dramatic growth, I’m able to connect to visitors quickly and keep them in the loop of what’s happening at Asbury.  I’m able to interact with people not just on Sunday mornings or Wednesday nights, but throughout their entire week, keeping them connected not just to me, but to the church as a whole.

And it isn’t just me, as a pastor, who can do this. Daily I see messages of members wishing each other a happy birthday, or offering prayers, or giving encouragement. As the people called Methodist, we treasure our connection above most everything, save for God’s grace. Facebook and other forms of social media are, for many people today, just the newest form of connection. And as a people of connection, this is our calling.

And that’s why I, and Asbury Church, are on Facebook.

An Anchor

I don’t do water. Anyone that’s ever been around me at a water park, or the beach, or really anywhere with water has learned that I don’t do water. I’m glad if water works for you, but just not my thing.

So, I’m not going to lie to you, I know nothing about boats, water, deep-sea fishing, or sea creatures. Other than the fact that I like most sea creatures fried.

But, in reading about ships, boats, and sailing, one of the things I’ve learned to appreciate is an anchor.

Now, you sea folks may correct me, but from what I’ve read and learned, it is that anchor that keeps the ship stable and in one place in the water. The anchor allows the ship to stay where it is and not be moved. And when a storm blows up, that is incredibly important. This anchor will keep the ship safe, unmoved, and undamaged.

This anchor will allow a ship to survive a storm.

Listen to what the author of Hebrews says this morning:

So God has given both his promise and his oath. These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie. Therefore, we who have fled to him for refuge can have great confidence as we hold to the hope that lies before us. This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls. It leads us through the curtain into God’s inner sanctuary.

Storms are coming. There’s no doubt. There will be troubles. There will be trials. There will be tough times. There will be tears. Storms are coming.

But, remember, when the storm comes, and even when the water is smooth, you have an anchor. You have something to keep you anchored and safe. You have something you can trust.

Or, some one you can trust.

Jesus. He is your anchor. When the storms come, He is your anchor. When the wind blows, He is your anchor. When trials and temptations affect you, He is your anchor. You can trust in Him. And He will be with you in all that happens in your life.

He is the anchor for our lives. He is the one that we can count on. He is the very truth, heart, and love of God. And our lives must be anchored in Him.

Today, when the wind blows, may we find our anchor in Jesus. And may we know that no matter what blows up around us, we are safe and secure in Him.

Keep Moving

Remember back in school, after a big lunch, how hard it was to pay attention in the class that followed?  In college, I tried to always have something active after lunch, a lab, a PE, something that would get me up and moving.

Because I knew, that no matter how much I loved history (and I did, I really did love history) that after a big lunch, being in a classroom sitting still listening to a lecture was just the perfect way to put me to sleep.

We all know that feeling of being tired and sluggish, don’t we? Sometimes, occasionally, but not often, we may even feel that way in church! 🙂

The author of Hebrews talks a little about this today in a reading from chapter 6. Except he’s not talking about being physically sluggish, he’s talking about being spiritual sluggish.  Listen to what he says:

And we want each one of you to show the same diligence so as to realize the full assurance of hope to the very end, so that you may not become sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.

We are reminded today to remember the hope that we’ve been called to. To remember where we are going, to remember what God has called us to. And to keep moving towards it.

God has placed a high calling and a high purpose on you and for you. You’ve got something amazing to do for Him. You are called to a high purpose in this life and your highest purpose in it all was that you were created to spend all of eternity with Him.

You are made in His image, called by His spirit, and given His grace.  So. . .

Keep going.  Keep walking. Keep moving. Don’t stop. Don’t get sluggish. Don’t stop chasing after Him. Don’t stop being faithful. Even if life is hard. Even if it’s not perfect. Even if it’s not what you want or what you’d do.

Don’t quit. Don’t give up. Don’t forget. You are called a high purpose in life. For God. And for eternity.  Don’t quit moving. Keep going.